Trauma Therapist in Carlsbad, California
Trauma-focused therapy with EMDR and Brainspotting in San Diego, with virtual therapy throughout California, Colorado, and the U.S. Virgin Islands
Therapy for people who learned how to survive, but are ready to find out who they are when survival is no longer the assignment.
We All Have Red in our Ledger
Every one of us carries moments we'd rather forget
Losses that changed us
Choices we regret
Wounds we never deserved
Parts of ourselves we've spent years trying to outrun
Therapy isn't about tearing those pages out
It's about remembering they were never the whole story
Insight illuminates the path
Courage writes the next chapter
Action carries you home
Maybe you've been living here for a while
You've spent years carrying things no one else could see.
You've become so good at holding everyone else together that no one realizes you're falling apart.
You learned to stay alert because your nervous system forgot what safety feels like.
You keep reaching for something-achievement, alcohol, perfectionism, work, control-hoping this time it will quiet what's underneath.
You've seen things most people never will...and you're tired of pretending they don't affect you.
Military life, first responder work, addiction, trauma, divorce, grief...life has changed you in ways that are hard to explain.
Somewhere along the way, you stopped recognizing yourself.
You keep waiting until you're "better" before allowing yourself to fully live.
You've survived.
But you don't want survival to be the thing that defines the rest of your life.
Trauma Therapy with EMDR & Brainspotting in San Diego, California
Healing isn't just about talking
Sometimes understanding your story changes everything.
Sometimes it doesn't.
You can know exactly why you react the way you do and still feel trapped in the same patterns.
Because trauma isn't stored only in our thoughts.
It's carried in our bodies, too.
That's why I integrate Brainspotting, EMDR, and other trauma-informed approaches. Not because talking isn't valuable, but because healing sometimes begins where words end.
Sometimes the deepest healing happens
where words can no longer
reach.
Therapy in San Diego, Colorado & the U.S. Virgin Islands
Below are the areas I most commonly help clients navigate. Think of them less as boxes to fit into and more as starting points for the conversations we'll have together.
Trauma Therapy
You survived it. Your body may still be acting like it's happening.
Military, Veterans, & First Responders
You've learned how to function under pressure. That doesn't mean it hasn't cost you something.
Anxiety Therapy
Your mind won't shut off, even when nothing is technically wrong.
Relationships
You keep finding yourself in the same patterns, even when you know better.
Addiction & Recovery
You changed the behavior. Now you're figuring out what was underneath it.
Life Transitions
Life changed. You're still trying to figure out who you are on the other side of it.
EMDR Therapy
You understand what happened. You just don't want to keep reliving it.
Brainspotting Therapy
Some experiences live deeper than words can reach.
The Person Walking Beside You
Meet Chelsea | Trauma Therapist in San Diego
Providing trauma-focused therapy, EMDR, and Brainspotting in San Diego and virtually throughout California, Colorado, and the U.S. Virgin Islands.
I didn't become a therapist because I had life figured out. I became one because I've seen what pain can do to a person. I've seen how trauma convinces good people they're broken, how shame teaches us to hide, and how fear quietly becomes the architect of an entire life. I've also had the privilege of watching those stories begin to loosen their grip, and that transformation never gets old.
If we work together, I'll care about you deeply. I'll celebrate your victories, sit beside you in the heartbreak, and help carry what feels too heavy to hold alone.
But I won't mistake comfort for healing, because sometimes, the most compassionate thing I can do is interrupt the story fear has been telling you for years.
I'll ask the questions no one else has asked. I'll notice the patterns you've stopped seeing. I'll remind you of the strength that's been there all along, even on the days you can't quite believe it's still there yourself.
As a Licensed Professional Counselor, I'm trained in EMDR, Brainspotting, and trauma-informed therapy, and I'm licensed to work with clients in Colorado, and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Those approaches matter because they help us work with more than just your thoughts. They help us work with your nervous system, your body, and the places where trauma often continues to live long after the danger has passed.
But techniques alone don't change people.
The relationship does.
Healing rarely happens when someone is analyzing you from across the room. It happens when you feel safe enough to be fully seen, challenged with compassion, and reminded of who you were long before fear convinced you otherwise.
If you're ready for that kind of work, I'd be honored to walk beside you.
Taking the First Step
Beginning therapy can feel overwhelming. It doesn't have to be. Here's what you can expect.
Reach out.
Book your free 15-minute consultation or send me a message. We'll talk about what's bringing you here, what you're hoping for, and whether we're the right fit for each other.
Let's create a plan.
If we decide to work together, we'll begin building a roadmap that's tailored to you-not just your symptoms, but your story, your strengths, and the life you're working toward.
Begin healing.
Healing isn't about becoming someone new.
It's about remembering who you were before fear, trauma, addiction, or shame convinced you otherwise.
We'll take it one session, one conversation, one courageous step at a time.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Yes! I offer a complimentary 15-minute consultation so we can get to know each other, talk about what's bringing you here, and make sure we're the right fit. Therapy is deeply personal. Finding someone you trust matters, and I never want that decision to feel rushed.
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I offer in-person therapy in San Diego and Carlsbad, as well as secure online therapy throughout California, Colorado, and the U.S. Virgin Islands.
During our consultation, we’ll discuss what makes the most sense for your location, schedule, and the work you’re hoping to do.
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Yes. EMDR and Brainspotting are two of the trauma-focused approaches I use to help clients work with experiences and patterns that may not shift through insight alone. Both can help us work beyond traditional talk therapy and engage the deeper ways trauma can be held in the nervous system and body. We'll decide together whether either approach makes sense for you. description
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Absolutely.
While EMDR and Brainspotting are often associated with trauma, they can be useful for much more than what we traditionally think of as “big T” trauma. These approaches can help us work with anxiety, difficult emotions, relationship and attachment patterns, addiction and recovery, performance blocks, and experiences that feel stuck even when you understand them intellectually.
Brainspotting can also be used to explore physical sensations, chronic stress and pain, creativity, performance, and personal growth, not just distress. You don’t need a single major traumatic event or a PTSD diagnosis for this kind of work to be meaningful. We’ll look at what you’re experiencing and decide together which approach, if any, fits.
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I care deeply, but I don't confuse caring with staying comfortable.
I'll sit with you in the hardest moments of your life, but I won't let therapy become a place where we simply rehearse pain. My goal is movement.
Our work together is active, collaborative, and deeply personalized. I draw from a variety of well-established and trauma-informed approaches, including EMDR, Brainspotting, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Narrative Therapy, and Solution-Focused Therapy. I also don't believe one therapy modality is the answer for everyone. I believe the right therapist knows when to draw from the right approach.
For many people, understanding their story is only the beginning. EMDR and Brainspotting allow us to work with deeper, subcortical processing systems where trauma is often held beyond conscious thought. My hope isn't simply that you understand your past-it's that you begin living differently because of what you've healed.
Insight illuminates the path. Action creates lasting change.
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People rarely come to therapy because they have "anxiety." They come because anxiety has stolen their peace. They come because trauma still feels present years later, addiction has become a way of surviving, grief has changed them, or life no longer feels like the one they imagined.
I specialize in trauma recovery, addiction and recovery, anxiety, grief, major life transitions, and working with military members, veterans, first responders, and the families who love them. Whatever brought you here, my hope is the same: that you leave therapy needing me less, and trusting yourself more.
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There isn't a timeline for healing because every story is different. Some people come for a specific season of life, while others choose longer-term work. We'll regularly check in on your goals and make sure therapy continues to serve you-not the other way around. My goal isn't to keep you in therapy forever. It's to help you build a life that feels meaningful long after we're finished working together.
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Then you're exactly where many of my clients began.
You don't need to know what to say. You don't need to have everything figured out. You don't need to be "ready." You simply need the willingness to take one honest step forward. We'll figure out the rest together.
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At this time, I am a private-pay practice and do not bill insurance directly.
I understand that choosing to invest in therapy is a significant financial commitment, and I don't take that lightly. My decision to remain out of network allows me to focus on your care rather than insurance requirements, treatment limitations, or diagnosis-driven authorization.
I've also found that when people intentionally invest in their healing, they often show up with a different level of ownership and commitment to the work. Therapy isn't something that happens to you-it's something we build together.
If you'd like to use your out-of-network benefits, I'm happy to provide a superbill that you can submit to your insurance company for possible reimbursement.
The next chapter starts here
You don't have to have everything figured out before reaching out.
Whether you're navigating trauma, anxiety, addiction, grief, or simply feeling stuck, you don't have to carry it alone anymore.
If you're ready to stop surviving and start living, I'd be honored to walk beside you.